It's alright ifthey don't understand you, quite frankly, at this age even we are not sure of what we want, in the future or now.But, if you are clear, on your goals, just stride along alone.
When you need the support, you will have to find it within you. Motivate yourself.Be strong, set goals, go after them with all might. There are many people, coming from abusive to non-existent parenting, if you have a will there is always a way. Just keep a close knit group of a few friends, with same goals, just be reliant on them.
I would even say, get a degree, get a job, move out into the free world(Easier said than done).Maybe some time in independence, could help free your mind of anxiety,also may open the eyes of your parents．
Conflict resolution by negotiation is a skill that is learned and developed.
Firstly, look inside yourself. Like someone said before, meditate on not your happiness alone. Meditate on what is right and wrong.Your parents want you to be a whole lot right than you want to be.
Or maybe, your parents are just being too protective of you.Maybe they care for you too much. I know people who have grown up in age, but not in maturity because of this over protection. Having said all this, some idea of what is right and wrong will go a long way here.
Now then,there might be issues with the your tone.Record your own argument with them once or twice on your phone. When you are calm enough, listen to it and think what went wrong where and be impartial in your judgement.Correct yourself. Think about things from their perspectiveand next time, give them a proposal that "they cannot refuse."
There might be perception and comprehension issues due to generation gap.Not all adults are capable of understanding this too and they are not friends with their children, but just act as parents. Respect that.Show them first you can be their friend too, by getting involved in their day to day living and talking about their problems along with them.Build a connect. They will come around to listening to you too, sometime.
And negotiation skills can be developed by undergoing various exercises with friends, which can be fun.There are lots of materials available on net enough to make you a professional hostage negotiator. Build you skills and rock the world. Remember, never forget what is generally perceived as right and wrong, because karma is a bitch.
How do you know they don't?Just because they may not agree with you doesn't mean they don't understand you.Ev早洩藥,ery teen thinks their parents don't understand them. In reality,the incredibly fast changes a teen faces means it's really they that don't understand themselves fully yet. No one does as a teen.The brain doesn't even mature until the mid-twenties.
Parents have not only been teenagers before, they have emerged from that stage of life successfully and gained a lot of life experience in the process. They know what it’s like to grow up, find yourself, and build a life. Maybe you could give them some credit?This doesn’t mean they know everything and are perfect, but they certainly more experienced than you. They are probably doing the best they can with what they have.
Also, they can't know what you are thinking or feeling unless you tell them. If there is something you need from them, let them know.Calm, open, honest co妹妹unication and mutual respect can do wonders for understanding each other.
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